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My Grandmother's Hands


 The legacy of my family is rooted in my paternal grandmother, who was a constant and loving presence throughout our many challenges. Even when she disagreed with our choices—including mine—she made her love clear and expected us to strive for more than she achieved. Though our family faced struggles, we supported one another, maintaining love even when we disagreed.

My grandmother’s love for God guided her life. She read the Bible faithfully and enjoyed reading, an uncommon skill given her humble beginnings and the era in which she grew up.
With all this in mind, I was recently asked to write about a moment in my early childhood, and this is what showed up:
What is your favorite childhood memory?
My favorite memory is story time at the public library. That’s when books started to feel magical. I saw reading as a way to explore new worlds. My grandma loved books and shared that joy with me. She passed away this July. She was 102 years old. She was the heart of our family. She taught us to live with love, kindness, and forgiveness.
My grandmother’s strong faith and morals shaped our family’s values. She cared deeply for her children, grandchildren, and great-grandchildren, hoping we would honor her sacrifices by living meaningful and loving lives. Her legacy inspires us to strive for the best in all we do.
RA, N. (2025, August 21). APCD 108 Course [Week 1, Discussion Question]. Canvas.

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